Last week, we talked a little bit about the awesomeness that is lube. This week, we’re talking types of lube.
These lubricants can be pretty fun, but also pretty messy. Some kinds you might know are vaseline, mineral/baby/coconut oil, and lotions. Perhaps the biggest pro to these lubes is that they are long lasting and can be really great for people who have extreme genital dryness.
The biggest downsides:
They can break down latex condoms and rubber toys! Make sure to utilize polyurethane condoms with these kinds of lube.
They can also make it easier to get infections. If you have any issues with your immune system, I’d stay away.
You feel pretty sticky or slick afterward.
These lubes . Some brands you may know include Überlube and Astroglide. One of the biggest perks here? These lubes are waterproof AKA they’re great for water-based sexy activities. These also tend to feel pretty silky, which many people enjoy on their own or with others.
Drawbacks? These stain pretty well and are not compatible with silicone sex toys.
Lubes in this category tend to be the easiest to utilize in a variety of situations because they’re compatible with all sex toys and generally can cause less irritation than the two above categories. Brands you may be familiar with here include KY and Liquid Silk. Clean-up is a breeze with these as all you need to do is rinse, unlike the two categories above which need soap to really leave.
The biggest downside? Some can contain glycerin or, if flavored, sugar which can promote yeast infections. These can also dry out pretty quickly, meaning that you may need to add water or a little spit to reactivate the lube.
These can come in liquids, gels, and creams, so don’t think it’s all liquid-only.
Some good things to know
If you have sensitive skin, it may be good to stay away from lubes that contain extras like parabens, glycerin, or various flavorings or scents. Glycerin can also cause an uptick in yeast infections – and can be commonly found in water-based lubes – so make sure to read the label.
Allergies and reactions can happen to just about any lube. It’s always important to know your allergies as well as the allergies of others you may be intimate with in order to be completely safe.
There are also hybrid lubes, combining the above categories. Make sure to read the label.
Your bum does not really have natural lubricant of its own, so ALWAYS use lube with bum fun.
The lubricant that is right for you will depend on the activity, how many people are involved, where this is taking place, allergies/irritations, and what your end result may be. If you are looking for a lube to aid with everyday vaginal dryness, for example, you may want a different lube than if you were involved in sex with a group with an armory of sex toys at their fingertips – which will be different than lube you may want to use for masturbation, mutual or on your own.
Please make sure to join us next week when we will be discussing one of the best lubes out there. You will have a chance to enter to win a bottle!