2019 Chat and Podcast Updates

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Over the last few months, my health has gone from ‘meh’ to ‘oh no.’ Add in a three month saga of a critically ill guinea pig and it has been a wild ride.

Now that I have a grant I’m working on in addition to freelance writing for sites like Allure (stay tuned!), I have to be more mindful of time.

I’ve put a lot of pressure on myself to try to hold chat and the podcast too often… which leads to executive dysfunction on top of feeling gross. That just leads to a lot of me binging Nailed It! and daydreaming about being Nicole Byer’s best friend/make out buddy.

Anyway, it’s not necessarily that I have to slow down. I do need to readjust and manage my time better. Sometimes self-care is holding yourself accountable for things and making changes. My hope is that changing things up a bit will make it easier to keep a regular schedule for everything.

Chat

It’s been a long minute since we had chat. What I would like to do is move chat to once a month.

To keep things easy, I’m going to hold chat on the first of every month from now on. Setting a firm and unchanging date will help a lot. Reducing the frequency should help, too.

On top of that, it’ll make it easier for more people to join as some of the dates will be weekends.

Podcast

I think the Chronic Sex podcast needs to reduce in frequency, too. I don’t record sometimes because I know two weeks from now I might not be able to release a new episode.

To keep everything easy, I’m going to keep all the dates the same.

From now on, expect to participate in chat and listen to a new podcast episode on the first of every month.

That means the next chat will be on February 1st. Make sure to follow the tag #ChronicSex as times may change month to month. That’ll allow more people to participate from around the world.

If you haven’t joined chat before, check out this guide.

That also means the next podcast episode will be out on the first. You can find it on SoundCloud, Podbean, iTunes, Google Play, Spotify, and a ton of other places. Since the timing is changing, we’ll be in the third season. I think it makes it easier to manage.

Like I said, I think narrowing this stuff down will help me put out content. I stress about this stuff way too much. It isn’t that it’s not fun, but I really do treat it like the work it is.

If you miss hearing my voice more often and enjoy true crime or paranormal stuff, check out the Spooky Sconnie Podcast. It’s all about the spooky, paranormal, criminal, and just plain odd Badger State of Wisconsin.

#ChronicSex Chat Is Back!

That’s right – chat is back this week!

Willow and Alyssa from the Beautiful Bodies podcast will be guest hosting. The topic? Body positivity!

Make sure to join us on Twitter using the tag #ChronicSex on August 30th at 8 pm Eastern/5 pm Pacific.

See ya then!

Would you like to host/co-host chat, be a guest on the podcast, write a blog post, or anything else? Email me at kirsten -at- chronicsex -dot- org.

Chat Schedule Thru July 2018

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I’m trying to do better with holding chat more often than not. Below is what I’m projecting to be the schedule for January thru July 2018. Of course, by nature of being chronically ill on top of traveling, this may change. Check #chronicsex on Twitter Thursdays for the latest updates. Make sure to read this beginner’s post about chat, too.

January:

  • 11
  • 18
  • 25

February:

I’ll be presenting at Playground in Toronto the weekend of 23-25 – come join in!

March:

  • 1
  • 15
  • 29

I’m presenting at Safe Healthy Strong in Milwaukee on the 21st or 22nd. I’ll update y’all when I know which day for sure.

April:

  • 19

April is a busy month! I’ll be presenting at ClexaCon in Las Vegas over the weekend of 6-8 as a part of two panels – one on queer sex education and the other on queer disability representation. The hubs and I are going to extend that into a vacation. I’m holding space for two other conferences later in the month as well.

May: 

  • 17
  • 24
  • 31

June:

  • 7
  • 21
  • 28

July:

  • 5
  • 19
  • 26

I’ll be presenting at Poly Dallas over the weekend of 13-15 about the complications of polyamory when you’re living with health crud. I’m really excited about this topic and about bringing it to light… and super excited that my BFF lives in Dallas, too!

Chat Updates & Schedule Thru Dec 2017

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I’m canceling our chat tonight for a fun reason – women’s hockey!

This got me thinking, though. Between traveling and special events, our schedule changes a little for the rest of the year. The following are days I’m hoping to hold our chat:

October

  • 5
  • 12 (World Arthritis Day, so expect a topic around that!)
  • 19
  • 26

November

  • 2
  • 16
  • 30

December

  • 7
  • 14
  • 21
  • 28

I may cancel these as needed for health stuff. When in doubt, check our Twitter hashtag #chronicsex.

Our chats are usually around one hour and are held on Twitter. Start time is 8 pm Eastern – 7 Central – 6 Mountain – 5 Pacific. If you’re in another time zone, check the time zone converter.

As those of you who have been following chat for a while know, I was hoping to have a second time to be more accommodating to those outside North America. I’m struggling enough with my health right now that this isn’t an option. However, one thing I’ve done to make our chat a little more accessible is alter how I ask questions.

Instead of focusing only on open-ended questions, I’m asking questions using polls (when it fits). This means that anyone can answer the question anonymously via poll for 24 hours after the question is posted. This helps people who are in different time zones, unable to make chat times for other reasons, and those who need to be more anonymous but would like to participate in the chat. You can still answer open-endedly or expand on your poll answer if you like.

I’m also hoping to get the podcast going again soon. If you have a topic you’d like to hear about, whether for chat or a podcast episode, please let me know!